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Postpartum care is healthcare for women after their baby is born. A healthcare provider checks that you are healthy and healing well. Go to all your postpartum checkups. Ask when you will need a checkup again.

  • You and your baby need vaccines (shots) to stay healthy.

    - Shots keep you safe from viruses and diseases like measles, polio, and tetanus.

    - Babies will get most of their shots by their second birthday. Some shots are needed after that.

    - Ask your healthcare provider what shots you and your baby need.

    - It is important to keep all scheduled medical appointments to keep up to date on your baby's shot schedule.

    - Ask your baby's doctor to write down your baby's shots so you have a record of what they have received. Bring the record with you to all appointments.

If you need help to pay for healthcare, call 1-855-626-6632 to see if you are eligible for HUSKY/Medicaid.

Choose Healthy Foods Food Bowl

Moms who feed only breast milk to their baby may need slightly more food. This is a general guide. You may need more or less amounts of food. For a Daily Food Plan that’s designed just for you, visit https://www.myplate.gov/.

Eat regular meals and choose a variety of whole grains, vegetables, fruits, dairy, and protein foods.

Breastfeeding:

7-8 ounces per day (7-8 servings)

Non-Breastfeeding:

6-7 ounces per day (6-7 servings)

A serving equals:

  • 1 slice bread or tortilla
  • ½ bagel or hamburger bun
  • ½ cup cooked rice, noodles or cereal
  • 1 cup flake-type cereal

Eat whole grains like:

  • Oatmeal
  • Whole wheat bread or rolls
  • Brown rice
  • Whole wheat pasta
  • Tortillas (whole wheat or corn)
Breastfeeding:

3 cups per day (6 servings)

Non-Breastfeeding:

2½ cups per day (5 servings)

A serving equals:

  • ½ cup cooked vegetables
  • 1 cup raw vegetables
  • 1 cup lettuce or other leafy greens
  • ½ cup vegetable or tomato juice

Tips:

  • Eat many kinds and colors: dark green, orange, red, yellow, purple, and white
  • Add to: scrambled eggs, rice, noodles, salads, and casseroles
Breastfeeding:

2 cups per day (4 servings)

Non-Breastfeeding:

2 cups per day (4 servings)

A serving equals:

  • ½ cup chopped or cooked fruits
  • 1 fruit – apple, orange, peach, etc.
  • ½ cup 100% fruit juice
  • ¼ cup dried fruit

Tips:

  • Eat many kinds and colors: red, yellow, orange, blue, green, purple, and white
  • Put sliced or chopped fruit on cereal, pancakes, pudding, and frozen yogurt
Breastfeeding:

3 cups per day (3 servings)

Non-Breastfeeding:

3 cups per day (3 servings)

A serving equals:

  • 1 cup milk
  • 1 cup yogurt
  • 3 slices (2 ounces) American (processed) cheese
  • 1½ ounces cheddar or similar cheese
  • ⅓ cup shredded cheese
  • ½ cup cottage cheese
  • 1 cup soymilk

Tips:

  • Choose low-fat or non-fat milk
  • A 1½ ounce serving of cheese is the size of 3-4 dice-sized cubes
Breastfeeding:

6½ ounces per day (6½ servings)

Non-Breastfeeding:

5½ ounces per day (5½ servings)

A serving equals:

  • 1 ounce meat, chicken, turkey, or fish
  • ¼ cup canned light tuna
  • 1 egg
  • ¼ cup cooked beans or tofu
  • 1 tablespoon peanut butter

Tips:

  • A 3-ounce serving is the size of a deck of cards
  • Choose lean meats – bake, broil, or grill them
  • Beans are a great source of protein

Eat Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner

Eating regular meals and snacks will give you the strength and energy you need to take care of your baby. Here is a sample menu of healthy options using some foods you can purchase with your WIC benefits.

Get your body in shape with WIC foods. They give you:
  • Iron for healthy blood
  • Calcium for strong bones and teeth
  • Vitamins A and C for healing
  • Protein for body repair

Here’s what your BREAKFAST might look like.

1 cup 100% mixed berry juice
Breakfast Dish
1 slice whole grain toast
1 hard-boiled egg

Here’s what your SNACKS might look like.

Lunch Dish
½ cup sliced peaches
1 cup low-fat or non-fat milk
5 or 6 whole grain crackers
3 or 4 slices of cheese
1 cup cucumbers and cherry tomatoes
water between meals and snacks

Here’s what your LUNCH might look like.

1 cup water
½ cup large, sliced strawberries
1 cup sliced carrots
Lunch Dish
2 slices whole grain bread

with 3 ounces lean deli turkey

with ¼ cup lettuce and ¼ cup tomato

Here’s what your DINNER might look like.

1 cup mixed, green salad with 1 tablespoon dressing
1 cup grapes
½ cup green beans
Lunch Dish
1 cup whole grain spaghetti
with ¼ cup ground beef
with 1 cup tomato sauce
1 cup low-fat or non-fat milk

Breakfast Ideas

Make time for breakfast. It helps you get through the day. Here are a few ideas. Choose one or more foods from each group below.

EXAMPLE: Whole Wheat Tortilla + Peanut Butter + Apple Slices

Grains

  • Bagel
  • Cereal
  • Whole wheat or corn tortilla
  • Crackers
  • English muffin
  • Oatmeal or grits
  • Raisin bread
  • Whole grain bread
  • Granola or trail mix
  • Whole grain waffle

Dairy or Protein

  • Low-fat milk
  • Low-fat cheese
  • Low-fat yogurt
  • Egg, cooked
  • Nuts (like walnuts)
  • Peanut butter or nut butter
  • Hummus
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Fruit or Vegetable

  • Applesauce
  • Green peppers
  • Tomato
  • Avocado
  • Apple
  • Banana
  • Melon
  • Orange
  • Peach
  • Pineapple
  • Raisins
  • Strawberries
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On the go? Ask for these smart choices!

  • Grilled chicken sandwich
  • Turkey and avocado sub
  • Hamburger or cheeseburger
  • Pizza topped with green peppers, tomatoes, and mushrooms
  • Baked potato with vegetable and cheese toppings
  • Bean burrito
  • Fruit
  • Water, low-fat milk, 100% juice, or seltzer
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What about iron?

After childbirth, your body’s iron level may be low. This can make you feel weak and tired.

Your healthcare provider may recommend a vitamin with iron or to continue taking your prenatal vitamin.

Try to eat more of these iron-rich foods:

  • Iron-fortified breakfast cereal
  • Cooked dried beans like white beans, lentils, garbanzo beans,or pinto beans
  • Lean red meat
  • Tofu
  • Eggs
  • Greens like spinach, collard greens,and mustard greens
  • Potato with skin
  • Prune juice
  • Whole grain bread

Combine iron rich foods with foods high in Vitamin C. Eating these together helps your body absorb more iron from the food you eat.

Good sources of Vitamin C include orange juice, grapefruit, baked potatoes, tomatoes, peppers, and broccoli.

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Small changes can make a big difference in helping you feel good, have more energy, and lose weight. There are many tips that moms have shared that worked for them.

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Don’t eat food directly from the package.

Portion out foods, like crackers, nuts, trail mix, pretzels, cheese cubes, etc., into individual containers or zip-top bags. Better yet, put vegetables in a container for quick healthy snacks without all the calories.

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Make vegetables a part of every meal.

Start a family meal with a bowl of vegetables or salad placed at the center of the table and eat plenty. Serve the main dish in the kitchen. Use the MyPlate guide to fix your plate at https://www.myplate.gov/.

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Stop eating when you feel satisfied.

Remind yourself that it’s okay to stop eating before your plate is empty or before everyone is done eating.

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Watch your portions.

Using smaller plates will help control our portions. Studies show we eat more when there’s more food on our plate.

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Cut back on some foods.

Cut calories by cutting out foods high in fats and added sugar. Decide to choose sweet drinks, cookies, cakes, candies, and ice cream as occasional treats. Limit meats like ribs, bacon, and hot dogs.

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Cook at home.

Try healthier recipes that use less fat, sugar, and salt.

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Drink water.

Sometimes we may feel hungry, but we are actually just thirsty. Keep water with you throughout the day and drink often to stay hydrated. Sugar-sweetened beverages like sodas, sports drinks, and iced tea contain added sugars and calories. Consider limiting these to a small amount and drink more water.

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Eating healthy is only one part of feeling great and having more energy. Being active helps too.

Staying active helps new moms relieve stress – and having a new baby can be stressful! Ask your doctor when it’s okay to exercise and then start out slow.

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Your body stays fit when you move it. If your healthcare provider says it’s okay, stay active. Walking, stretching, and swimming are a few good ways.

Being physically active can:

  • Help you look and feel great
  • Give you more energy
  • Lower stress and help you relax
  • Work off your pregnancy weight
  • Tone your muscles

Take it easy, at first. Your body needs to heal. Ask your healthcare provider what you can do and when you can do it.

Start with a 5 or 10 minute walk. After one week, walk a little longer or farther. Set a goal that works for you.

Here are other easy ways to move your body:

  • March in place when you watch TV or talk on the phone
  • Play music and dance
  • Ask your friends and family to join you

You can also find other fun and free workout programs/videos online.

Change health habits one at a time.

Get used to one change before you make the next one.

What food can you cut back on?

Example:
Cut back to one soda a day.

What food can you change?

Example:
Eat low-fat yogurt with fruit for breakfast.

What can you do to be more active?

Example:
Take the stairs, not the elevator.

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Enjoy your new baby, but take care of yourself, too.

  • Ask for help from family and friends. Let them shop, cook, and clean.
  • Nap when your baby naps. If you can’t sleep, lie down and rest.
  • Find someone to talk to.
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Eating nutritious, regular meals will help you:

  • Have more energy
  • Think clearly
  • Heal better
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Most new moms experience the Blues. The Blues can include feeling overwhelmed, sad, and worried. Moms may be tearful and have trouble making decisions and planning. The Blues begins after birth and lasts for about two weeks. If these feelings continue and increase, you may be experiencing Postpartum Depression.

If you think you might have Postpartum Depression, talk with your healthcare provider to get help. You deserve to feel well.

If you have thoughts of harming yourself or your baby, get immediate help.

Call the National Suicide Prevention line at 1-800-273-8255 for free and confidential emotional support 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, or for immediate help dial 211 and press 1 for crisis.

Call Postpartum Support International Helpline at 1-800-944-4773, visit https://psichapters.com/ct/, or text 800-944-4773 (English) or 971-203-7773 (Spanish). For online support groups visit https://psictchapter.com/support-groups/.

Signs of Postpartum Depression

Any of these feelings that last more than 2 weeks:

  • Feeling very sad
  • Crying often
  • Not wanting to eat or overeating
  • Trouble falling asleep or sleeping too much
  • Not motivated to care for yourself
  • Not enjoying life
  • Feeling emotionally disconnected from your baby
  • Feeling like you could hurt yourself or your baby
  • Afraid to be alone with your baby
  • Worrying too much about your baby

Try this stress reliever.

  • Sit in a chair.
  • Put your hands on your stomach.
  • Breathe in through your nose as you slowly count to 4. Hold for one second.
  • Breathe out through your mouth as you slowly count to 4.

Repeat 5 to 10 times.

Understanding Your Baby’s Cues Food Cup

Your baby uses body movements and cues to tell you what they need. Responding to your baby's cues can help them be calm and happy.

I’m hungry.

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When your baby is hungry, they may:

  • Keep their hands near their mouth
  • Bend their arms and legs
  • Make sucking noises
  • Pucker their lips
  • Search for the nipple (roots)

I’m full.

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When your baby is full, they may:

  • Suck slower or stop sucking
  • Relax their hands and arms
  • Turn away from the nipple
  • Push away
  • Fall asleep

I want to be near you.

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When I am ready to play.

As your newborn gets older, you will be better able to tell when they are ready to interact, learn, or play. When your baby is asking you to help them learn more about you and their new world, they may:

  • Have a relaxed face and body
  • Follow your voice and face
  • Reach toward you
  • Stare at your face
  • Raise their head

Young babies do this for short periods of time and then need to rest again. As babies get older, they will interact with you and others longer.

I need a break.

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When I need something to be different.

As you get to know your baby, you will begin to learn what they are trying to tell you. This takes time. When your baby needs a break from playing and learning or needs some quiet time, they may:

  • Look away, turn away, or arch their back
  • Frown or have a glazed look in their eyes
  • Stiffen their hands, arms, or legs
  • Yawn or fall asleep

Give your baby the best start – breastfeed!

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Nursing is natural, but may take time and practice.

Breastfeeding in the beginning is a time when you and your baby are learning. With time, you both will find it easier.

Get your rest.

You will have more energy for your baby.

Drink water, milk, and 100% juice when you are thirsty.

Have a beverage ready to drink while you nurse.

Eat three meals and at least one snack each day.

Some snack ideas are:

  • Cheese and crackers
  • Fruit
  • Low-fat yogurt
  • Nuts and raisins
  • Cereal
  • Sandwich

If you do not drink milk, talk to WIC. You can get calcium from other foods like:

  • Cheese
  • Yogurt
  • Orange juice with calcium
  • Tofu (made with calcium)
  • Kale and collard green
  • Other foods fortified with calcium
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Join a breastfeeding support group and/or talk to a WIC Breastfeeding Peer Counselor. It can help to be with other moms like you.

Call WIC or a lactation consultant if you have questions about breastfeeding.

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Breastfeeding – Good For You, Good For Baby

Breastfeeding – Good For You, Good For Baby Food Cup

Babies who are breastfed:

  • Have fewer allergies
  • Get sick less often
  • Have less diarrhea or constipation
  • Have a reduced risk of crib death (SIDS)

Moms who breastfeed:

  • Do not have to spend money on formula
  • Get back into shape faster
  • Have a decreased risk of certain cancer’s and type 2 diabetes
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Staying Safe Food Cup

Keep you and your baby healthy by avoiding tobacco or nicotine products, alcohol, marijuana, and other drugs. If you are planning another pregnancy, we can help you with resources to stop or reduce use of tobacco, nicotine, alcohol, or drugs.

Smoking or using tobacco or nicotine products can impact your health. Smoke or vapor from cigarettes or vape pens can impact others around you. Smoking around babies or children can increase their risk for colds, ear infections, Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), or asthma.

Consider a no smoking rule for your home and vehicles. Ask people to not smoke around you and your baby.

We know how difficult it is to quit or reduce tobacco or nicotine products. If you are struggling to quit or reduce your use, we have resources for you. Visit www.quitnow.net/connecticut for support with quitting tobacco or nicotine use including free coaching, a free quit plan, and educational materials.

Avoiding alcohol, marijuana, and other drugs is recommended to keep you and your baby or older children healthy and safe. We have resources to support your efforts to stop or reduce your use.

For support with quitting alcohol, marijuana, or other illegal drug use or for information on Medication Assisted Treatment (MAT), contact your healthcare provider or visit https://portal.ct.gov/DMHAS/Programs-and-Services/Women/Womens-and-Childrens-Programs.

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